Couples Therapy
Structured sessions to address disconnection, recurring conflict, and relationship repair — including co-parenting and LGBTQ+ couples.
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Superbill provided for out-of-network reimbursement.
Free 15 Min Consult
No commitment — just a direct conversation about fit.
In-Person · Los Altos
Telehealth Appointments across California.
Trauma-Informed Care
Safety and trust come first — we never rush the hard parts.
How My Approach Is Different
I take a structured, insight-focused approach to therapy that helps you understand what's happening beneath the surface. We identify patterns, make them visible, and connect them to past experiences—so you can begin making meaningful changes sooner rather than staying stuck in the same cycles. I work with adults experiencing trauma, PTSD, anxiety, and relationship-related patterns. I also use simple visual explanations and psychoeducation to make sense of emotional reactions, communication breakdowns, and recurring dynamics.
Find the area that fits your situation most closely.
Structured sessions to address disconnection, recurring conflict, and relationship repair — including co-parenting and LGBTQ+ couples.
Learn moreInsight-focused individual work for adults navigating anxiety, relationship patterns, trauma history, and life transitions.
Learn morePhased, structured support for rebuilding trust after an affair — helping both partners navigate decisions about the relationship's future.
Learn moreEvidence-based trauma processing for PTSD, trauma, and experiences that continue to drive emotional reactivity, triggers, and relationship patterns.
Learn moreLonger or more frequent sessions over a shorter period — to build momentum and make meaningful progress sooner. For couples in crisis and individuals working through trauma, anxiety, or stress.
Learn moreTherapy for attachment wounds, repeating emotional patterns, and trauma that originates in or shapes close relationships.
Learn moreIf you're unsure whether we're a fit, the free consultation is the place to find out.
About Irena
I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT #145911) based in Los Altos, CA. My efficient, proactive approach may be a better fit if you want a therapist who engages actively with what you're working through — not one who mostly reflects and waits.
I work in-person in Los Altos and via telehealth throughout California. English, Hebrew, Russian, and Ukrainian.
Meet IrenaClient reviews
Irena stands out from the crowd as a compassionate, well-versed trauma therapist! We have worked together on multiple occasions, and I have consistently found her to be insightful, knowledgeable, and empathic. She has a gentle yet firm nature that is both comforting and appropriately challenging. The way she balances these energies is inspiring as a provider and highly effective in helping clients move toward the change and healing they desire in their lives. I would recommend Irena a million times over, and have found it a true pleasure to work with her.
— Google Review
I was really impressed by how attentively Irena listened and how thoughtfully she approached the conversation. Rather than simply giving me advice, Irena asked thoughtful, guiding questions that helped me get to the root of what I was experiencing. She encouraged me to work through my own answers before offering her perspective, which made me think more deeply about myself, my feelings, and the underlying issues I was dealing with. I found her approach insightful, compassionate, and genuinely helpful. Irena has a way of creating space for you to understand yourself rather than simply telling you what to do. I came away from our conversations with a much deeper understanding of myself and things I hadn't previously considered.
— Google Review
There are very few people in life who can hold space for you in a way that makes you feel completely seen, heard, and accepted. Irena is one of those people. From the very beginning, I felt a deep sense of trust and safety in our conversations. No matter what I brought to her — whether it was something personal, painful, confusing, or deeply vulnerable — I never felt judged. Instead, I felt met with compassion, understanding, and genuine care. What makes Irena truly special is her ability to combine insight with humanity. She has a remarkable intuition and often helps me see things from perspectives I would have never considered on my own. Yet she never tells me what to think or do. The process feels collaborative, as though she is walking alongside me, helping me find my own way forward. She is an exceptional listener, thoughtful in her reflections, and deeply present in a way that makes you feel valued and understood. She also has a wonderful sense of humor and lightness that makes difficult conversations feel less overwhelming. Even when doing deep emotional work, I leave feeling more hopeful, more grounded, and more connected to myself.
— Google Review
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881 Fremont Ave, Suite B5 · Los Altos, CA · In-person & telehealth